So you and your partners have decided to try dome “swinging”. It’s not hard but there are a few things that you do need to keep in mind.try heading to a local swingers club and introduce your selves to some couples but DO tell them that you are new to wife swapping.
The basic concept is you take something of mine and I take something of yours. getting down to it it’s a simple give and take relationship. How much you want to “give” and “take” is entirely up to you.
Here are some common tips.
1. Take things slow.
Being your first time think things through and if you’re extremely sure go ahead with your “wife swap”. It’s important that you and your partner are on the same page regarding what you want. Going slow would mean walking before you start running. Even if you make it to a wife swap party doesn’t mean that you need to get your “swap” on. Some couple may invite you to watch if it’s your first time. But a lot of it just depends on your comfort level. But swingers do go out of their way to make new comers feel welcome.
2. Communication.
You and your partner need to talk. Even if may seem silly talk it out. A lot of good relationships have failed when it came to swinging because there was not enough communication. Some couples have the ideal perfect marriage but can fails due to small insecurities.
3. Do a lot of research
The best place to research swinging or wife swapping is to go online. Iwon’t lie when I tell I that 70% of your search results will be porn sites that shouldn’t discourage you though as there are legit sites out there you will find blogs, swingers club sites and online wife swapping sites dedicated to hooking up couple like you with others with similar interests.
4. Nervousness.
This is not necessarily a bad thing. Being nervous means that you’re excited about something. It’s very normal for newbies to feel nervous. It’s just that you’re getting scared of the unknown. Like I said before you don’t have to start swinging on your first evening just go there and get the feel of the people there the place and the attitude people have towards swinging. So if you’re nervous doesn’t mean you have to run into your car and barricade your selves at home.
Most importantly have fun.
