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Wife sharing or wife swapping is a concept that dates back to the early the century although it is not possible to get a precise time line on it as we are dealing with human sexual preferences and relationships spread across the entire human race and its different cultures. Generally wife swapping is thought to be a western trend.
India has come a long way from being that backward underdeveloped country that it was andit’s showing in its people’s lifestyles. Indians are known to be a very conservative people who are known for our strict traditions and religious beliefs that being said we are also credited with writing the “Kama Sutra “the world’s greatest sex guide. Although the general idea is that wife sharing is a fairly modern thing it has been happening for quite some time in India. This shouldn’t come as a surprise considering the amount of “live-in” relationships, open relationships and homosexuality no longer being a crime.
The best way to find eligible partners in India is to look online. Browse through some blogs, although you get a lot of frauds in chat rooms there are actually quite a few genuine people out there. The trick to having a successful evening is finding a couple or couples who are looking for the same things you are.
On your first meet there may be some awkwardness but that’s easily remedied with an evening out, say go out for a couple of drinks, sit and chat. There’s no point being shy you need to really have an open conversation. Find out the likes and dislikes of your new friends it would be advisable to avoid having taking your new friends home rather go to a resort or hotels as this could lead to later complications. Try to find a place that’s non-public where you will not be disturbed. Some fine vintage would go a long way in setting the mood. Most couple engaging in a wife sharing try avoiding brightly lit rooms. You can have some dim light or candles. Set just enough candles in the room just so you’re not in total darkness but not bright enough to unsettle any nervous firs timers. Candles will help give a sense of privacy. Now if you’re having your wife-sharing in a house say a rented cottage or farmhouse decide which room or rooms will be used during the evening. Some people enjoy spending the evening on the floor on some soft blankets surrounded by soft pillows.
There may be some complaints and issues through the evening so talk it out. If something is not to your liking delicately inform your partner or partners. Itwould be a good idea to avoid bringing cameras and keeping cellphones switched off as nothing kills the mood like the sound of a phone ringing. Be gentle and have respect for the people you’re spending the evening with.
