If you’re interested in swinging or wife sharing it’s important to know how to spot swingers. None of us want to find ourselves getting queer looks from people. There are many types of swinger parties each having their own set of rules and tactics in getting there.
Here are some tips to keep in mind to find swingers or to find wife sharing parties are:
An open mind
An internet connection
If you’re lucky enough to have a friend who’s into swinging then half your works done there.
Having a gay friend also helps as they are usually well informed about alternate lifestyle happenings
And look up alternative lifestyle magazines.
1. Keep in mind that there are many types of swinger parties
Some are house parties that are held at people’s houses that are regularly into wife sharing. These parties are usually by invitation only but may not always be free. Parties may be held at clubs but are usually sponsored by swinging communities or a really rich swinger for which there may or may not be an entry fee. The fee may also depend if you’re going alone or with a partner. Also these parties depend largely on the law of the area. Depending on what type of party you want to attend your tactics need to differ.
2. If you’re friends are into swinging then contact them
Your friends are the best people who can help you with this. They will give you inside tips as how to act, the proper etiquettes of swinging, grooming and the secret tells of swingers. They can tell you what type of parties there are and when they are happening.
3. Swinging publications
Another great way to find swingers and wife sharing parties is to look up alternate lifestyle magazines as you can get info there on latest parties, couples looking up other couples and other interesting tips on swinging.
4. Go clubbing
Going clubbing would get you in touch with people who are into living an alternate lifestyle
Even if you go to your local club chances are that you may meet swingers and help you make contacts there. A good idea would be to go to a gay bar or club if youre nervous of being hit on by members of the same sex then take your partner with you and just start talking to people I guarantee that you will find some info on finding swingers or local swinger parties and make some contacts there.
5. Online swinging websites
These are websites meant specifically for swingers where you will get regular updates on parties and couples looking for other couples. They even run regular ads for parties.
6. Grooming
I can’t stress how important this is; even if you make it to a swinger’s party it doesn’t mean that you will get laid. Proper grooming makes that difference if you go home with new friends or alone.
That being said happy swinging
