Sunday, 11 March 2012

Are Swingers the new trend setters? And where to find them

Wife swapping is more common than you may think. It’s not the stuff that happens in movies and series anymore its hit the streets of India and a lot of couples are getting into it. The best thing about it is that you can never tell who’s into it; for all you know it could be your best friend, your boss or that elderly couple living upstairs. Those Saturday night  ”book club” meetings they attend don’t seem all that innocent anymore do they?  Some couples get bored of their everyday bedroom lives and find themselves calling other couples in there and some just try it as a last desperate attempt to save their marriages.

There could be many reasons as to why wife swapping may be getting so acceptable in India. Some people may say the influence of western media like movies, series music videos or it could just be that some people just get influenced by watching too much “porn”. Some people are of the opinion that wife sharing went on in India before it became a trend in the west. There’s even a mention in one of our holy books where brothers share a wife. Some places in India you will see brothers sharing a wife due to the low male to female ratio. Guess we city folk have a lot to be grateful for. So all in all I won’t really call swinging a new trend.

Finding swingers is easier than you think. If you just Google it you’d get hits on some of the best swingers websites and you won’t always get Indians in India who are into it as well. All you need to do is register on there put up a picture of you and your better half, write a bit about your selves likes ,dislikes and describe what  type of a couple you’re looking for . Some websites may charge you a small fee. Once you get registered they contact you and you set a “meet”.

In cities there are wife swapping communities and clubs though you may not be able to tell from the outside they are usually discreet. Some clubs are so discreet that just to hide their clientele’s privacy they get them to park their cars in private parking lots that they rent out and drive their customers to the club from there in cars with tinted windows. Some communities have this common practice where all the husbands put their car keys in a bag and mix it up then without looking in each man would take one key out and goes with matching cars owner’s wife and car.

So if you’re one of those lucky guys whose woman doesn’t mind getting “swapped” then the best of luck to you.